In a society where the concept of “perfect love” is promoted by innumerable romance novels and Hollywood blockbusters, a well-known relationship counselor has contested the long-held view, claiming that it is impractical and maybe detrimental to contemporary relationships.
Social expectations of meeting the perfect spouse who can satisfy all emotional needs have been shaped by stories of fated encounters and genuine love that have been passed down through the generations for ages.
According to relationship coach Nanayaa Prempeh, these expectations may negatively impact how individuals view relationships and love.
She declared, “There is nothing like perfect love; you will never find anything like it. It doesn’t exist.”
“You may find a partner with a perfect body but the brains may not be there,” she continued, adding that “you can have someone who fits what you want, but not necessarily perfect.”
According to Nanayaa, who has over ten years of experience helping people navigate relationships, our flaws are a deliberate divine design that keeps us humble and conscious of our humanity.
“God reminds us that we are only human and that we don’t have everything.”
Real love, she emphasized, is messy, imperfect, and demands work from both partners. She also emphasized that the foundation of a long-lasting relationship is communication, mutual understanding, and acceptance of one another’s imperfections.
The next time you’re envisioning a romantic fairy tale, keep in mind Coach Nanayaa’s sage advice that “perfect love does not exist.” Imperfections are what make love authentic and lovely.
